"THE COURAGE TO STAY TRUE TO MYSELF" BY MARWOOD, MARY PAULA ELLA A.

" The Courage to Stay True to Myself"

A long time ago, when I was around Elementary and grade 6. My group of friends encouraged me to join them in skipping classes (leave class and just hang out in the playground). I felt hesitant, as I wanted to be with them (wanting to fit in), but I knew that it was wrong. I made the choice, I declined their offer, and suggested doing something more fun without breaking any other rules. My decision was influenced by the type of person I am, the values, and understanding of the potential consequences, which is more efficient than breaking the rules just for a group of kids to let me hang out with them.

Choosing to decline this offer, given how hesitant I was, demonstrated my ability to exercise my moral strength and stand for what is right, even when it puts pressure to fit in with the other kids. This act of my self-control reflects the higher human nature to transcend immediate desires for acceptance and prioritize my well-being and my future. I felt a sense of pride, realizing that true strength lies in making conscious choices aligned with my values. 

I have thought that going along with my friends would be a way to gain acceptance and feel included. But seeing the situation, I realize that true friendship supports and respects my decision even if they differ from what they want.

At first, I actually might have believed that trying to be first was the only way to be accepted. But I realized that true acceptance comes from being true to myself and making responsible choices. Seeking the truth and about what truly matters helped me see that standing firm in my principles is a sign of maturity for my age back then and my self-respect. This realization reinforced the importance of making ethical decisions despite external pressures.